The Correct Emphasis in Relationships Between Disagreeing Christians

"I have little hope of accomplishing this promise of revelation (in Phil. 3:16) in men who differ about contested truths until we first accomplish the obedience of walking suitably and answerably by the same rules that we do agree on. Every day I am more persuaded of this because I see men for the most part spending their strength and time more to oppose things they disagree with than to practice the things they and others agree are most necessary."

-from Rules for Walking in Fellowship by John Owen